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Jenn Mann answers your sexiest questions — unjudged and unfiltered. It makes me gag and tastes gross. I am, however, very enthusiastic when giving one. Can I train myself to like it? I mean I don't see the point in going down at all if he's not really loving what he's getting.
What matters is knowing your partner well enough to know what is important to them. Yes, you can learn to swallow, if that's what you really want to do. But unless it is someone really special who has been tested and who is eating you out like there is no tomorrow, why would you? There are many reasons Do you want to swallow a load men enjoy having their semen swallowed. For some it is the ultimate of acceptance. Knowing that this is not a scrumptious delicacy but pressuring your partner to partake of it can be an act of dominance.
For some men, it also is a behavior that's linked to a fantasy of feeling powerful. So some guys treat swallowing like it's part of lovemaking, others feel like it's part of eroticizing a partner during sex. While it is important to understand the preferences of your partner and to be able to work together so that everyone has a great sexual experience, the pleasure of receiving oral sex is not dependent on the swallow.
Focusing on the finish ignores the talent and skill that is takes to perform a great blow job, not to mention the pleasure that provides. The essence of a blowjob is friction to the head of the penis, pressure to the base, and lubrication to facilitate the process.
Suction and tongue-work augment the friction. In addition to technique, there is a lot to be said for enthusiasm and passion. Showing him your really down, with authentic groans and getting into it yourself, will go a lot farther than one gulp. Communicate with your partner about what you are comfortable with. Let him know what you are comfortable with and, if there are circumstances that might help you to feel differently, what that might be.
Taking a sexual behavior like swallowing off the table shouldn't be a deal breaker, especially if a partner enjoys other aspects of oral sex. Also, if not swallowing allows you to really enjoy the other parts of fellatio, let your partner know this. Try new techniques. High-level technique requires study. When you were in school, if you wanted to get an A on a test, you studied for it.
To get an A as a lover is no different. Many people have a hard time putting their ego aside to learn about sex and anatomy. When it comes to technique, no matter how much you know, it is best to put your ego aside and approach this learning process from a place of openness and humility.
There is no shame in learning, and asking what feels good — and what could feel better — is a good place to start. Go deep. Spice things up by going deeper than you usually do. Check out some tips and techniques from my column about deep throating to give swallowing a whole new meaning. Keep it equal. Make sure that oral sex is reciprocal, that one person is not doing all the heavy lifting while the other lays back. A really common mistake that people without penises make is to stop blowing mid-orgasm which can make it less pleasurable.
And, if you want to work past your aversion, that is an option too. BJ as appetizer. You can use your fabulous oral sex techniques as a warm up to intercourse.
Once things are hot and heavy, you can jump on top of him to take him inside of you assuming he's consenting and game, of course. Give him a different bullseye. There are so many places for him to cum! The world is his oyster He can cum on your stomach, your face, your boobs; roll over and give him your back as a palette if you want. He can cum on himself or shoot it across the room. Just try to keep his jizz our of your eye, which is not only mood-killer, it is potentially dangerous. If that does happen make sure to rinse it with warm water, put a compress on it and check in with your doctor if things get inflamed.
There is nothing wrong with spitting it out. You can be so discreet he will hardly know. You should always have a wash cloth or tissue nearby when doing anything that involves bodily fluids, anyway. He'll be psyched about the orgasm and probably that it happened in your mouthand you can just discreetly spit it into the cloth you already have on-hand. If you want to get over your aversion, there is nothing like exposure therapy. Maybe your current guy has a better taste than someone you were with in the past.
Diet, health and lifestyle habits can make a huge difference in acidity and taste. Another option is to let him shoot it further back in your throat so it does not hit your taste buds. For myriad reasons, you should think twice about any man who pressures you to swallow or shames you about not doing it. People forget that they can catch something from oral sex but it happens.
It is okay to save something for a committed relationship or even marriage.
Or, save it for never and straight up say no. After all, a sexual encounter with someone you're into should never be that hard to swallow. By Dr. Jenn Mann Updated Jul 03, pm. Each product we feature has been independently selected and reviewed by our editorial team.
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